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Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

San Diego, California

Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

PsyD in Marriage and Family Therapy, Alliant University San Diego
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style emanates warmth, compassion and professionalism. My approach is collaborative, empowering, authentic and client-centered.

San Diego, California
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Dexter Mai

Santa Clara, California

Dexter Mai

MSW, University of California, Berkeley
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my integrated approach to trauma therapy, I seamlessly weave Brainspotting and evidence-based talk therapy to provide comprehensive support for clients. Drawing on the power of Brainspotting, I guide clients in identifying and processing trauma through the activation of specific “brainspots,” while leveraging the insights and techniques of talk therapy to foster deeper introspection and cognitive reframing. I target both the neurological and psychological aspects of trauma, and facilitate a holistic healing journey. My practice prioritizes creating a collaborative and empathetic space, where clients feel heard, validated, and empowered to navigate their healing process with self-awareness and newfound strength.

Santa Clara, California
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Jacob Sims

Jacob Sims

Oakland, California

Jacob Sims

MA, Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Depression. Anxiety. Low self-esteem. Relational issues. These are common issues that people face when it comes to mental health challenges, which are enough to make life difficult. Chances are your relationships and most importantly your relationship with yourself have been greatly impacted by these factors. There’s this sense that something has to change, but you might not know where to begin. Together we embark on this journey of uncovering just how you got here and discovering where you want to go.

Oakland, California
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Monet Goldman

Santa Clara, California

Monet Goldman

M.S. in Counseling, California State University East Bay, Hayward
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Video game counseling is a novel approach that uses video games in counseling sessions to help closed-off clients express themselves. Video game counseling is a more immersive, artistic, and creative medium for clients to build skills and process their difficulties. I also help gamers stuck in their life to gain control over their video game habits and fulfill their other life ambitions.

Santa Clara, California
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Leann Ravenel

San Francisco, California

Leann Ravenel

MA, Lesley University
Years in practice: 22

I have been a mental health provider for nearly 20 years. I absolutely love what I do! I was trained psychoanalytically but also use a humanistic, client-centered and eclectic approach to therapy. I am a warm, caring and engaging therapist. I enjoy working with male clients and have had tremendous success in treating men with depression, anxiety and relationship issues.

Thank you.

San Francisco, California
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Dr. Nicole Bryant

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Dr. Nicole Bryant

University of Denver, MSW and Grand Canyon University, EdD
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach when working with participants is to keep things low-key. The worst thing is an overly clinical therapist! I do my best to get on your level and to converse in the way you’d like to converse. I listen and then inform you of blind spots as needed. It helps clients remain comfortable yet always have that “aha” moment.

Specialties: Depression, anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, relationship conflict

Therapies: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), Mindfulness, Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused Therapy, Brief Therapy Interventions, Rapid Trauma Resolution

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Evan Dunn

Los Angeles, California

Evan Dunn

MSW, Hunter College - CUNY
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a psychodynamically oriented practitioner who has experience working with men, specifically in regards to eating, self-esteem, and anger issues. I encourage profound exploration of symptoms and issues while simultaneously offering my patients a space of warmth and relief in which to grow.

Los Angeles, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS MICHIGAN

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

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Caleb Birkhoff

San Francisco, California

Caleb Birkhoff

MS in Counseling Psychology, Dominican University of California
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Psychotherapy focused on helping people manage issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Work Stress, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, and Relational Issues. Working with the whole person I strive to build a safe and trusting space for each individual in order to address the complexity of issues they may be facing. Remote therapy only.

San Francisco, California
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Daniel Dryden

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Daniel Dryden

MA Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Like water carving rocks, we are shaped by our surroundings and where we come from. I grew up in rural Alaska surrounded by a vast expanse of towering mountains and large glacial rivers. I worked for many years as a wilderness guide, experiential educator and wilderness therapist. Dramatic seasonal changes in light, temperature, and landscape taught me that stillness exists within the extremes. I work from a perspective that combines modern neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, internal family systems, eco therapy and eastern mysticism. Among other things I am a father, carpenter, adventurer and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapist (KAP). Please feel free to reach out for a free 15 min consultation through my website.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Lisa Larsen

Lisa Larsen

Lancaster, California

Lisa Larsen

PsyD/John F. Kennedy University
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an LGBTQ-affirming grief and trauma therapist who helps individual adults, teens and couples feel calm, safe and connected. I use EMDR, hypnosis, SFBT and EFT, through virtual therapy.

Lancaster, California
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Dr. Anthony Flynn

Dr. Anthony Flynn

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Anthony Flynn

PhD (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Flynn uses evidence-based models like CBT and ACT, emphasizing relationship factors and exploring systemic influences on clients’ experiences. He helps clients develop skills to meet needs and respond to stressors, including structural impediments to wellness.

His experience spans ages 17-101, including college students, unhoused people, Veterans, and LGBTQ+ communities. Since 2018, he’s practiced in various settings, including outpatient psychotherapy, inpatient health psychology, and gender-affirming care.

Dr. Flynn researches health disparities, ethics, and psychotherapy effectiveness. He enjoys travel, nature, motorcycling, and family time. Currently working under Dr. Enrique Gracian’s supervision while completing licensure.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. John Lee Evans

San Diego, California

Dr. John Lee Evans

PhD in Clinical Psychology, United States International University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Straightforward, no nonsense approach to psychotherapy without a lot of psychobabble. Helping men deal with depression and anxiety even if they are experiencing outward success. Learning to deal with the inevitable pain and suffering of living when it is not something we normally share with those around us.

San Diego, California
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Niku (Nick) Shah

Oakland, California

Niku (Nick) Shah

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice can help you take stock of childhood messages you learned around toxic masculinity and heteronormativity so you can truly let go of what is no longer serving a purpose in your life. Depression, suicidal thoughts, self harming, addiction and going through tough periods in your relationships can be challenging. You don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can help you heal old relational trauma that is causing you distress, so you can be your best self at work, with friends and loved ones and in your intimate relationships.

Oakland, California
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