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Fabrice Paracuellos

Laguna Beach, California

Fabrice Paracuellos

MA, Pacifica Graduate Institute and MS, Arts et Métiers ParisTech and MBA, HEC Paris.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I view therapy as being invited to explore ourselves in a welcoming way with someone with kindness who shares knowledge about how we function as humans, so we can gain an understanding for how we have functioned, what we need to thrive, and then thrive. This is self-worth and mastery. And with it comes our being more loving toward toward others and toward ourselves.

Laguna Beach, California
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Erik Karff

San Francisco, California

Erik Karff

MA in Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with primarily men who are struggling with self-esteem, pervasive self-critics, loss, and social anxiety. Many of my clients are identified as gay, queer, and QTPOC.

San Francisco, California
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Dr. Derek Novacek

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Derek Novacek

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Emory University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Derek Novacek (PSB94025428) offers expertise in evidence-based treatments for anxiety, depression, and interpersonal stressors. He practices a collaborative and strengths-based approach that integrates sociocultural factors as appropriate. While seeing clients at Therapy Lab, Dr. Novacek also works at the Los Angeles VA Clinic. He completed his clinical internship at UCLA and postdoctoral fellowship at the West Los Angeles VA Medical Center. Dr. Novacek works clinically with the supervision of Dr. Hilary Adams (CA #30294) as he completes his final steps towards licensure.

Los Angeles, California
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Dexter Mai

Santa Clara, California

Dexter Mai

MSW, University of California, Berkeley
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my integrated approach to trauma therapy, I seamlessly weave Brainspotting and evidence-based talk therapy to provide comprehensive support for clients. Drawing on the power of Brainspotting, I guide clients in identifying and processing trauma through the activation of specific “brainspots,” while leveraging the insights and techniques of talk therapy to foster deeper introspection and cognitive reframing. I target both the neurological and psychological aspects of trauma, and facilitate a holistic healing journey. My practice prioritizes creating a collaborative and empathetic space, where clients feel heard, validated, and empowered to navigate their healing process with self-awareness and newfound strength.

Santa Clara, California
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Leann Ravenel

Berkeley, California

Leann Ravenel

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lesley University
Years in practice: 22
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have been a mental health provider for nearly 20 years. I absolutely love what I do! I was trained psychoanalytically but also use a humanistic, client-centered and eclectic approach to therapy. I am a warm, caring and engaging therapist. I enjoy working with male clients and have had tremendous success in treating men with depression, anxiety and relationship issues.

Thank you.

Berkeley, California
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Jake Glassman

Carlsbad, California

Jake Glassman

MA MFT, University of San Diego
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe men face unique challenges and societal pressures that can often lead to emotional and psychological distress. I specialize in helping men explore a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, societal expectations, work related stress, masculinity norms, and substance abuse. Even though I’ve worked with a wide variety of clients, I have dedicated my career to helping men overcome these challenges and improve their mental health and overall well-being. In this day and age, it can be extremely isolating and frustrating to live as a man. Let me help guide you to living the life that you want.

Carlsbad, California
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Ryan Heapy

Newport Beach, California

Ryan Heapy

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Flat out, my specialty is men. Throughout my years of working primarily with men, I’ve helped my clients achieve their dreams and reach their potential. I’ve helped incredibly successful men find joy, find purpose and find meaning. I’ve also helped many men navigate the path out depression, anxiety, and addiction while creating better relationships with family, friends, and partners. I pride myself on being someone my clients can completely trust, providing a place to truly be themselves without shame or judgment.

Newport Beach, California
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Dr. Jim Coil

San Diego, California

Dr. Jim Coil

EdD in Higher Education Leadership, Azusa Pacific University and MA in Counseling Psychology, National University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an interactive, solution-focused therapist, my approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I wish to support each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. I specialize in in individual, couples and family therapy addressing mood disorders, trauma and conflict using cognitive behavioral techniques and emotionally focused therapies. Specialties include mood disorders, trauma, and addiction.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

San Diego, California

Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

PsyD, The California School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide support for the unique challenges of men dealing with stage of life issues, marital problems, divorce, parenting and career transitions. My approach is solution focused and applies cognitive behavioral and person-centered interventions. Please contact me for a free 15-minute consultation.

San Diego, California
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Dr. John Lee Evans

San Diego, California

Dr. John Lee Evans

PhD in Clinical Psychology, United States International University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Straightforward, no nonsense approach to psychotherapy without a lot of psychobabble. Helping men deal with depression and anxiety even if they are experiencing outward success. Learning to deal with the inevitable pain and suffering of living when it is not something we normally share with those around us.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Paul Fisher

San Diego, California

Dr. Paul Fisher

DMIn, San Francisco Theological Seminary
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an experienced therapist, LMFT#23779, of more than thirty years. I have my own practice in San Diego, CA, and also counsel online, and teach graduate behavioral science courses virtually. I work primarily with adults, individually or as couples. I’ve led numerous support groups for men, as well as working individually with alcohol and porn addiction. I’ve also assisted men with life transitions, loss, divorce, parenting, co-parenting, self-care, anger management, and domestic violence. I assist in helping men understand themselves and to be responsible and accountable for their choices and behaviors. Men also need an awareness of what a woman needs in a healthy relationship, and I work in this area as well.

San Diego, California
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Jacob Sims

Oakland, California

Jacob Sims

MA, Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Depression. Anxiety. Low self-esteem. Relational issues. These are common issues that people face when it comes to mental health challenges, which are enough to make life difficult. Chances are your relationships and most importantly your relationship with yourself have been greatly impacted by these factors. There’s this sense that something has to change, but you might not know where to begin. Together we embark on this journey of uncovering just how you got here and discovering where you want to go.

Oakland, California
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Dr. Greg Cason

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Greg Cason

PhD, University of Houston
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Greg Cason is known for his warm and engaging approach to therapy. He is also a prolific writer and public speaker, with a particular focus on issues related to LGBTQ+ mental health and wellness. He is also an expert in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a diplomate of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy, as well as a licensed psychologist and clinical trainer with over 25 years of experience in the field of mental health. He has been featured on numerous television shows, including “The Today Show” and “The Doctors,” as a regular on “The Nancy Grace Show” and was the co-star of Bravo’s “LA Shrinks.” Dr. Greg currently maintains a private practice in Los Angeles, California, and is a clinical professor at UCLA.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Eric van der Voort

San Diego, California

Dr. Eric van der Voort

PsyD, American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex-positive, kink-affirming, and LGBTQ+ inclusive psychologist in San Diego, I work individually with men in their 20s-40s on issues like anxiety, depression, sexual concerns, relationship stress, substance use, and grief. My approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based, and clients find me to be active, compassionate, genuine, and nonjudgmental. I offer a safe environment to help unburden you from difficult thoughts, painful feelings, and unhelpful patterns, so that you can gain new coping skills, discover more helpful ways of thinking, and explore new ways of living a fulfilling life.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Philip Lance

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Philip Lance

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with a specialty in psychoanalysis and LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy. I can be helpful with dating, relationships, marriage issues, work, career changes, intimacy, and sexuality. I work with many academics, students, writers, filmmakers, and healthcare professionals.

Los Angeles, California
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