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Bruce Hearn

San Francisco, California

Bruce Hearn

MA in Counseling, Wright Institute, Berkeley, CA
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who struggle in relationships. You might have lost your self-confidence, or are feeling down, having encountered obstacles that seem too much to deal with. I’ll help you to draw on and develop your own strengths so that you can get moving again.

San Francisco, California
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Nicholas Morvan

United States, California

Nicholas Morvan

MA in Marriage, Hope International University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hate psychobabble? Good, me too. I want to make therapy more accessible to those that think “therapy isn’t for them”

I help men build resiliency and develop purpose through honest conversations. Sometimes this means teaching tools and techniques, sometimes this means exploring painful memories, but almost always we are having authentic conversations  that respect your experiences and provide ways for you to grow.

United States, California
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Adam Kaufman

San Francisco, California

Adam Kaufman

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I HELP MILLENNIAL AND GEN X PROFESSIONALS CONSCIOUSLY GET WHAT THEY WANT (IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS). Life is overwhelming. Between work, relationships, and technology calling for your attention at every moment, it’s extremely difficult to remain calm and grounded. We can lose our sense of purpose and passion.

Unlike other therapists who merely sit and listen, I take an active and engaged approach. You may find yourself in a guided meditation or a role-play exercise. There may be optional homework assignments. We’ll tune into exactly what you need. I’m here to support you to find your unique, confident voice.

San Francisco, California
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Robyn Shapiro

San Diego, California

Robyn Shapiro

MA, Touro University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

The stress of day-to-day life can become overwhelming and lead us to feel anxious, depressed and disconnected from ourselves and our closest relationships. It can be exhausting trying to manage work, family, friendships; only to find that we’ve neglected ourselves and our own needs.

Let’s work together. You’ll be in a safe, non-judgmental space, getting the support you need and deserve. We’ll explore new ideas and identify actionable approaches to help you better manage stress, improve your mood, self-esteem, enhance your communication skills, and build self-confidence. You’ll discover a newfound sense of empowerment, purpose, and joy.

Ready to feel happier, experience greater intimacy and connection in your life? Please schedule a free consultation.

San Diego, California
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Caleb Birkhoff

San Francisco, California

Caleb Birkhoff

MS in Counseling Psychology, Dominican University of California
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Psychotherapy focused on helping people manage issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Work Stress, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, and Relational Issues. Working with the whole person I strive to build a safe and trusting space for each individual in order to address the complexity of issues they may be facing. Remote therapy only.

San Francisco, California
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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Dr. Enrique Gracian

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Enrique Gracian

PhD in Clinical Psychology, University of Wisconsin - Milwaukee
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Enrique Gracian joined Therapy Lab in early 2020 while completing his Post-Doctoral Fellowship at UCLA Semel Institute. Enrique’s clients appreciate the compassion, intellect, and sense of humor that Dr. Gracian brings to therapy. With his additional expertise in neuroscience—the human brain, Dr. Gracian brings that special insight into his work with clients. He especially loves delivering the Affirmative CBT plan with LGBTQ+ individuals, the Racial Stress plan, and the Unified Protocol for anxiety, depression, or bipolar mood disorder. Dr. Gracian loves working with clients who have experienced trauma and provides evidence-based treatment. Dr. Gracian is bilingual (English/Spanish) and can provide services in both languages.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Orion Taraban

San Francisco, California

Dr. Orion Taraban

PsyD, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Orion specializes in men’s mental health. To that end, he helps men of all ages become the best versions of themselves. Orion’s approach to psychotherapy is direct, active, challenging, solution-focused, and time-limited. Think of it like therapeutic coaching. Sessions are practical and engaging; treatment is effective and efficient. Empathic and erudite, Orion cares deeply for his clients and strives to empower them through a collaborative sharing of insight and experience. Ultimately, he places particular emphasis on the process of self-realization in the service of individual authenticity. Call now for a free consultation.

San Francisco, California
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Dr. Eric van der Voort

San Diego, California

Dr. Eric van der Voort

PsyD, American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex-positive, kink-affirming, and LGBTQ+ inclusive psychologist in San Diego, I work individually with men in their 20s-40s on issues like anxiety, depression, sexual concerns, relationship stress, substance use, and grief. My approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based, and clients find me to be active, compassionate, genuine, and nonjudgmental. I offer a safe environment to help unburden you from difficult thoughts, painful feelings, and unhelpful patterns, so that you can gain new coping skills, discover more helpful ways of thinking, and explore new ways of living a fulfilling life.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

San Diego, California

Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

PsyD, The California School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide support for the unique challenges of men dealing with stage of life issues, marital problems, divorce, parenting and career transitions. My approach is solution focused and applies cognitive behavioral and person-centered interventions. Please contact me for a free 15-minute consultation.

San Diego, California
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Cait Glenn

Walnut Creek, California

Cait Glenn

MSW, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi there! I am so glad you are here. My approach is warm, open and organic. I focus on my clients fully by partnering with them to achieve their goals and create a life of meaning and fulfillment. I am not a smile and nod type therapist, I want to dig deep and really help you feel your best. My specialties are anxiety, depression, perfectionism, self-esteem, grief/loss and medical concerns. Feel free to reach out if you think we might be a good fit and I am happy to provide a free 15-minute consultation.

Walnut Creek, California
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Sara Okman

San Francisco, California

Sara Okman

Master's in Family Therapy, Thomas Jefferson University
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex therapist, couples counselor and psychotherapist, I help clients foster better relationships with themselves and their partners. I specialize in helping to negotiate desire discrepancy, low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships, including polyamory, consensual non-monogamy & infidelity.
Using practical, easy to implement tools, we will address and rectify what needs to shift, while emphasizing and solidifying what’s already working well. Together we will do the kind of work that produces positive, lasting change.

San Francisco, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Aaron Kurtz

San Diego, California

Aaron Kurtz

MSW, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an LCSW practicing in San Diego, California. I have a focus on Men’s issue’s and Gaming Addiction. Many of the men I’ve worked with have struggled to find mental health support that is sympathetic to their situation and understands their experience. I focus on concepts of mindfulness and use mainly CBT, DBT, and Strengths Based.

San Diego, California
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Dexter Mai

Santa Clara, California

Dexter Mai

MSW, University of California, Berkeley
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my integrated approach to trauma therapy, I seamlessly weave Brainspotting and evidence-based talk therapy to provide comprehensive support for clients. Drawing on the power of Brainspotting, I guide clients in identifying and processing trauma through the activation of specific “brainspots,” while leveraging the insights and techniques of talk therapy to foster deeper introspection and cognitive reframing. I target both the neurological and psychological aspects of trauma, and facilitate a holistic healing journey. My practice prioritizes creating a collaborative and empathetic space, where clients feel heard, validated, and empowered to navigate their healing process with self-awareness and newfound strength.

Santa Clara, California
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